Yes, but your profile photos can only be seen by the gentlemen to whom
you have given access. The site guidelines explain how to select a level
of privacy that suits you and who you want to share your profile with.
Other women on PA can not see your profile.
? Do you store personal details?
Personal details are not required. The website operates on a private server and the internal mail system is where members communicate. Preferences for privacy are available once logged in. No digital footprints here!
? Can I see the gentleman first?
No, they are pre-approved to be on PA. If it was a deal-breaker, you could offer a free coffee date as part of your service, it’s up to the gentlemen if they want to meet you first. Most will not. Alternatively, ladies can write blogs for members to read and respond to. This is a simple and effective way to get to know someone first.
? Can I reset my password?
No. If you forget your password your profile can't be accessed and you would have to rejoin. For the security of all members, you can't change passwords or make additional profiles.
? Is PA discreet?
No digital footprints here! No emotional expectations either!
Members can log in and communicate on the platform and leave no trace
once they log out.
Women can go invisible allowing them the flexibility to come and go
as time and life permits.
No, technology has allowed women to turn their spare time into cash
without having friends and neighbours finding out. On PA it's a simple
short term financial contract.
Bed and Breakfast, visiting retirement villages or taking an 'assisted' holiday, locally or overseas are some of the services provided. The financial reimbursement is decided upon beforehand and then you can be sure a lady will always compliment you and say nice things to you during your time together.
Go to the Lady Locator, click region, then a shoe which represents a
woman. However, once a lady has a few regular favourites her choice
to go invisible is not uncommon. Women can go invisible allowing them
the flexibility to come and go as time and life permits. The shoes show
who is available at that time. If there is a travel bag beside the shoe
it indicates someone is visiting that area. Bear in mind that there
will always be a limited number of lady's willing to opt for this lifestyle
when compared to adult sites which have many of escorts available to
the public. The relatively high join fee raises the bar.
Typically ‘The lady next door.’
Receptionists, teachers, hairdressers, nurses, artists, mothers, business
owners, to name but a few. Some are fed up with job interviews, working
for very little or want to buy fabulous things so take a leap of faith
and see what happens.
Advertisements appear in NZ Women’s magazines. Articles about
PA have been published and are now posted on the website.
Membership is for a lifetime. However, the women generally don't stay
on the site for more than four or five years and some stay for only months
or weeks. To cover advertising and the appetite for fresh faces there
is an optional update fee. This enables gentlemen to update to see new
ladies in their area after a year, if there are any. A list of the areas
where new ladies appear for a gentleman to decide whether he wants to
update or not.
"One of the
main things is that the money is a reminder to both parties that it
is a business transaction. While I have a healthy appetite for sex
and enjoy male company, mostly. :-) The money is a good reminder that
they are pretty much all married / or want to remain single or whatever.
I personally love that it's a secret!
Doing things no one knows about gives me a kick. :-) Similarly, some
men have said they love to have a secret. It's fun giving them what
they can't get elsewhere, as in naughty conversation or perhaps outdoor
adult play, naughty or nice lingerie - rather than the vanilla kind."
"It’s the best $600 bucks I’ve ever spent, honestly,
I’ve never laughed so much. I would nominate you for a QSM award
if I could it’s a great concept.
Around here (retirement village) they call me Mr Mischief. They have
no idea!. I wouldn’t be dead for quids!"
Rob age 81 joined ( Feb 2020)